EXPRESS

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When we say the word express, it brings an ocean of thoughts in our mind. It brings a tornado of emotions. 

It brings a mixture of feelings that somewhere we all are familiar with, but are just afraid or say, do not allow ourselves to accept it and hide it in us. We think that will make us look stronger. That is correct. Everyone of us wants to be correct in all the aspects of life and we should be even. At last this is human nature, to feel correct, right,strong…always. No matter what, we are never going to tell anyone about our real emotions and how we are feeling. WHY? Because we know that not everyone can understand us and, there is no need even for everyone to understand us. There is a saying by very famous Indian poet who lived under the reign of The Great Akbar, Khanzada Mirza Khan Abdul Rahim Khan-e-Khana aka Rahim. 

“Keep your grief in your mind. People will just make fun of you by listening to them, but nobody shares the grief.”

                                                                                                    -RAHIM

I know that everyone of us knows that…correcting…”almost everyone”.

But we also know that there must be someone somewhere with whom we can share everything we feel, we know, we care and not for. Simply just everything. And that person is the one. The person with whom you should share everything, tell everything, talk about everything. That person is your partner. Your partner in everything and will always be your partner in everything. What you both have to do is…EXPRESS. Because that is the person who will be affected by your griefs, and will never in his/her life will make fun of them. The person will really care about you…and you too will feel it with time. You will see the change…that how from not letting your feeling’s out, you just keep on blabbering about them without even a second thought in your mind…just when you are around that person.

You will always feel flawless, the perfect soul in this whole universe when you are with that person. When you express and the person facing you just simply understands everything and keeps on appreciating, correcting you and your thoughts. You will start realizing that you are a better person from what you were yesterday. The power of expression is such my friends.

You will become a person that always wants your other being with you, so that there is an endless chit-chat going on throughout the day. There is an endless exchange of thoughts taking place the whole time. You will understand each other in the best possible ways, and will explore the corners of each other which never were till date by anyone. Not even the person himself/herself. The comfort zone just keeps on increasing and there is no stoppage, blockage or anything that can ever harm you in anyway. WHY? Only because you know that you wills always express what you feel and it will simultaneously lead to a solution with ease and no complications.

You will love the way you are living and will always enjoy it. You will attain the peace of mind that every living soul in this universe craves for. You will be at peace.

 The ultimate peace of mind.

 

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WHAT IS LOVE ?

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One of the most debatable topics of the modern period- love- is also one of the single most misunderstood concept. The Oxford Dictionary defines it as “An intense feeling of deep affection” and also “A strong feeling of affection and sexual attraction for someone”, the earlier one meaning love that is shared between people and their families and the latter referring to conjugal ties.

Love in my understanding is the mutual feeling between two people who would embark on any path to protect them and keep them intact. Love is what is shared. Love reflects like a mirror for your affections towards a particular person. Love is not always associated with love making,physical/bodily touch but most certainly to the pain that is felt when the feeling of separation arises.

Many of us undertake various measures to find that so called ‘love of life’ but fail to understand that in the process we tend to defy nature’s laws. We come across various instances where we tag each person we meet or tend to like as ‘the love of our life’ and in the end wind up discontented along with lots of confusion and frustations. Honestly,these stay alongside your shadows for most of your life until that one person.

That one person when you realise is love is not when everything suddenly seems to be beautiful but when each of your puzzles get completed. The gap is filled. When he/she fills all your gaps left wide open,unable to be filled by you and you perform the same for them.

It’s not about same taste in material things or about harmonizing opinions but to respect each other’s. Just by the grace of science we know that in a magnet like poles repel, it holds the same for the philosophy of love too.

Love is subjective. No two societies or even individuals may have same opinion about it but deep down our hearts, we all ache in the same melancholy. We all need the same. Love.

Love as a motivation is a rare find and people seldom get inspired by it. This inspiration generally takes a negative form accompanying loneliness. But what we all fail to visualise is the abundance of motivation in love. It is the evergreen source that constantly drives you towards your ambition let alone the destructive feelings. But just ponder upon this that if love isn’t successful in making you successful, then why does this bloody practical world still feels the need for it?